1. When people blow their nose and make a whole commotion and have it sound like they are sneezing out flem and make it sound wet.
-WHY? it makes me feel uncomfortable
2. It annoys me when people have high expectations for you and don't appreciate when you try and work your hardest and maybe don't reach their expectations.
-WHY? it makes me feel like they don't appreciate me
3. When you are walking somewhere far and it starts pouring and you get wet and then you are uncomfortable while walking and once you get to your destination.
-WHY? I feel uncomfortable while walking
4. Not being able to see people you love the most all the time when you want to.
-WHY? because even though I want to see certain people, I physically cant because they are far away or are busy
5. When people are slow walking and I have to be somewhere and they don't allow you to pass them.
-WHY? because people are selfish and don't pay attention to their surroundings
6. When you're in a bad mood and it ruins your day but you don't know why or how to fix your mood.
-WHY? because I want to make myself feel better but i don't know how
7. When people don't answer their phone and you need to contact them.
-WHY? because I want to talk to someone and it frustrates me that I'm not able to
8. It's frustrating when you want to purchase something and they don't have any left in the store, in your size or it is too expensive.
-WHY? because you are so close yet so far to getting something you were excited about
9. It bugs me so much when someone wakes me up or bothers me while I'm sleeping.
-WHY? because I was taking the time out of my day to relax and rest and some people are so inconsiderate that they interrupt you while you are having "me" time
10. It frustrates me when you have plans with someone and they cancel on you right before.
-WHY? because I had a certain plan to meet with the person and set aside time in my day for them and might have said no to plans with other people
11. When someone lies to you and you know they are lying.
-WHY? because it is inconsiderate and a waste of time to lie
12. When you have to grow up and move on but you're too scared to get older.
-WHY? because I don't like when things change
13. When you are trying to be healthy and lose weight but your most tempting dessert or food gets placed in front of you.
-WHY? because you are trying so hard to be good and healthy and some things are just really tempting
14. Having a flight in the way of going home and seeing your family.
-WHY? because even when I want to see my family i first need to buy a plane ticket and the have a whole day of travel to new york
15. Not being able to be home for an extended amount of time before having to return to school.
-WHY? because I want to have enough time at home with my family and friends and not have a limited amount of days home
16. Having to make decisions for thing so far in advance that might change.
-WHY? because the circumstances might change that this decision is made around
17. Not being able to know if you're doing something right or making the right decision.
-WHY? because I want to know if I'm doing what I'm meant to do
18. It bugs me that losing weight is so hard while gaining weight is easy and fun because you get to eat anything you want.
-WHY? because I am trying to lose weight and its extremely difficult and I have to be always on my game but gaining weight is so easy
19. When people don't understand what you're going through or feeling
-WHY? because it is frustrating and hard to explain my feelings when others don't understand
20. Having to think about everything that bugs and make this list reminding me of all the stuff that annoys me.
-WHY? because it made me think of everything that annoys me and made me annoyed!
I thought this was very difficult! I talked to a lot of my friends and tried to get their help and ask them what they thought bugged me but I realized it all came from me. It was also annoying thinking of what annoys me which got me anxious and reminded me of what annoys me. It was a good exercise though, digging deep down inside you to figure out what truly annoys you.
Hey, Alyssa. I enjoyed reading your Bug List. Here's mine http://bpace9583.blogspot.com/2016/01/bug-list.html.
ReplyDeleteI noticed you included a lot of social and emotional irks you seem to have on a regular basis. It seems like you have a lot of desire for the people around you to always be considerate and mindful in order to prevent you yourself from having your emotional fluctuations. Perhaps entrepreneurial solutions to these more complicated personal issues could include social initiatives, programs, or events, to encourage emotional intelligence or being empathetic.
I felt the same way about writing the bug list (http://ryanent3003.blogspot.com/2016/01/bug-list.html). Most of the bugs are things that at the time are a minor inconvenience, but when you list everything together and realize how many annoyances there are, you realize how much there is to solve. It's easy to get anxious because of everything that's wrong, but looking at those bugs as opportunities helps to keep anxiety from building up.
ReplyDeleteI can agree so much to when someone cancels plans. It just really grinds my gears. Its just the principle to me going out of my way to put time into seeing someone, and they cancel day of... It's the best way to get on my bad side
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